So, i hear and read all these post about what a guy should be to a girl and how good he should be to her. But we rarely hear about the things girls should be.
So, Lets do just that. (keep in mind, guys you are allowed to use some of these tips for your self. Of course im no relationship pro, but advice is still cool)
Girls:
Dont be stubborn. Guys can be a stubborn bunch, if they break that for you then you should do the same for him. If not, he'll go back to his old ways.
Always support. Its good to voice your opinion if the situation is quite drastic, but if not, let him no your behind him.
Be inconvenient towards youself. By that i mean, do things out of love, even if it means you have to go out of your way to do something for your guy. Drive 15 minutes to see him for 5 minutes or what ever.
Be subtlety selfish. One i picked up from a friend. Considerate girls are amazing. BUT a bit of rude can go a long way. hmmmmm, lets say your on the phone with you boyfriend and he hints he's tired. TELL HIM you want him to talk to you for at least another 15 minutes because you might miss him while he sleeps. Seems odd, but WILL work. Any girl can say "you can go to sleep if you wanna." But, it may really make a guy smile when he realizes that you REALLY wanna hear his voice. Guys love feeling wanted more than they need sleep or what ever. This tip is risky. If you do it often, u'll be seen as annoying. Use it wisely. (hint: probably not a good idea to use this when hes working or has to do homework or something IMPORTANT)
Be a peacemaker. To some girl, not all. Sometimes, its ok to be the one who says sorry first.
Be spontaneous. Ask him what his favorite outfit on you is, and wear it for him. Or make him something (his fav foods, his fav deserts, or a cute handmade gift) just because you WANT to. No need for a special occasion.
Dont forget him. If he's gutsy enough to hang around you and a group of your girls, dont just get caught up in the girly chit chat. Talk to him and include him with your girls. Its already hard enough to want to stay in one of those female conversations. lol
Approach him. If he is talking to some guys, go to him and make sure he knows you're there so he can include you(Heres one i need to work on. LOL)
Be the 1st. If he's not doing something 4u, maybe you should do it 1st. If he dosent catch on to that, address it.
Be nice. If hes being a jerk, kill his jerkiness with kindness. If the jerkiness wont die, then let those claws out. LOL
Be public. Show SOME form of public affection either in person or online. Flirt a little. Dosent have to be OBVIOUSLY flirty and embarrassing. And as far as online goes, you could leave him a "Hey u" n take it from there
Give up yourself. Girls have to keep some sort of image, But its ok to let go of that partially for your boyfriend. If he's random and a crazy people person, dont be embarassed that he's being the crazy funny center of attention, join him. Who cares if you think it looks weird. He'll definately notice that your doing somthing for him that you dont usually do.
Never belittle. Voice your opinions wisely. Its hard for a guy to let his softer emotions out, so if its something thats weird to you, dont belittle it. Occasional belittlement can cause him to clam up. But make sure he stays manly. After he talks n vents, give him a pep talk and tell him to stay tough and that you support him.
If you have a good guy, he'll respond to these for sure. If not, then he should learn to appreciate loving gestures.
(My tips may have been jumpy.......But its getting late)









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